{"id":476,"date":"2010-07-18T22:53:25","date_gmt":"2010-07-18T20:53:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/?p=476"},"modified":"2010-07-18T23:02:12","modified_gmt":"2010-07-18T21:02:12","slug":"rwandan-tea-party","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/2010\/07\/18\/rwandan-tea-party\/","title":{"rendered":"Rwandan Tea Party"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I didn\u2019t know when the first time would be that I will write a blog entry and I certainly wouldn\u2019t have guessed that it would be in one of somebody who is volunteering in Rwanda. But there you go. Just shows you how somebody can pressure you with threatening to take away your <a href=\"https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/files\/2010\/07\/DSC04621.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-477 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/files\/2010\/07\/DSC04621.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"448\" height=\"336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/files\/2010\/07\/DSC04621.jpg 448w, https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/files\/2010\/07\/DSC04621-300x224.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 448px) 100vw, 448px\" \/><\/a>new addictions.<\/p>\n<p>Because, although I\u2019ve only been here since one week I already have a couple of new addictions that will be hard to get rid of. \u00a0African tea, for example, is one of them. I\u2019m used to only drink tea when I feel quite sick and the idea of pouring hot, rubbish tasting fluid down my throat seems like a good one. But here in Rwanda the tea is a whole different thing altogether and I just enjoy it with lots and lots of milk, sugar and various spices like ginger, cinnamon and so on. If I had to compare it with anything I would probably say it\u2019s like riding on a unicorn while little rabbits fly past to cuddle you and feed you with grapes or something like that anyway. So with that kind of pressure it was of course easy and a pleasure to write this in Ariane\u2019s (Kamaliza\u2019s) blog&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p><!--more-->Somebody has told me (it very well might have been Kamaliza) that the first country you visit in Africa will always be the country in Africa your heart is at and it will always shine in comparison to other African countries. Since this is my first time in Rwanda and my first time Africa as well I can\u2019t say if the saying is true but so far it feels like it is.<\/p>\n<p>In the time from when I arrived on Saturday morning to yesterday I\u2019ve mostly taken in the new environment and culture and tried to suck it all up like a sponge. On every bus journey we\u2019ve done I would just stare out the window and look at the country side, watch the people while they\u2019re walking along the road, carrying trade goods, their children and so on and I would try to see every single movement and every face impression. It\u2019s surprisingly interesting and entertaining so even the few bus rides we had that took a few hours went by really fast.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/files\/2010\/07\/DSC04634.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-478 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/files\/2010\/07\/DSC04634.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"448\" height=\"336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/files\/2010\/07\/DSC04634.jpg 448w, https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/files\/2010\/07\/DSC04634-300x224.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 448px) 100vw, 448px\" \/><\/a>Yesterday we had one of these journeys when we were on our way to Nyagatare, the capital of the Nyagatare District in the east of Rwanda. The reason we went there was simple and astonishing at the same time: we had been invited. We had been invited by a Rwandan named Bertin that Kamaliza had met on the bus from Tanzania to Kigali and accompanying us was Frank, another Rwandan she had met on the same bus ride. During our time in Nyagatare one of them had said that it\u2019s equally amazing that somebody invites another person to their home they\u2019ve only met and spent a few hours with but it\u2019s also remarkable that that person follows the invitation. As Kamaliza hardly know Bertin we didn\u2019t know what to expect at all. All we know was that he was a student of agriculture at the Polytechnic University in Nyagatare, that the east of Rwanda is more rural than the rest, it\u2019s warmer and not a hot spot of tourism to say the least. So when we arrived we could see that the area looks a bit more like \u201cAfrica\u201d as most Europeans would imagine it. Blue sky with an unforgiving, hot sun that keeps the motivation to go outside at noon to an absolute minimum and a ground that is more flat and covered in burnt grass which makes it look more like a savannah than the rest of Rwanda with its evergreen hills.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">We were happy to see that Bertin came to pick us up from the bus station with a big van, probably one of the nicest cars I have seen in Rwanda so far. We spent the next couple of hours at his house talking with him and some of his family and friends, who came in from time to time, sat and talked with us and then moved on with their usual daily routine or stayed longer. So by the time we ate lunch (delicious with those huge bananas for dessert) we had already met a lot of people and after sitting three hours in the bus and another two hours in the house we were happy to go out for a walk through Nyagatare. <a href=\"https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/files\/2010\/07\/DSC04673.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-479 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/files\/2010\/07\/DSC04673.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"448\" height=\"336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/files\/2010\/07\/DSC04673.jpg 448w, https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/files\/2010\/07\/DSC04673-300x224.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 448px) 100vw, 448px\" \/><\/a>We walked to the local university, the local river and back to the university where we watched a student match of two of the faculties (the IT-faculty was destroyed by the faculty of Communication and Media) and thankfully everything took a long time and we kept meeting new people so we could keep on talking about our lives and our cultures. I was delighted to learn so much about the Rwandan culture and look at their surprised faces when Kamaliza and me explained them some of the differences to ours. For example, that for a wedding the groom\u2019s family has to give 3-5 cows to the bride\u2019s family and each cow is worth around 800\u20ac. A vast amount of money here. We also talked about why Rwandans have a lot more children and why Germans don\u2019t, how divorce is socially accepted in Germany and in Rwanda not and many other themes. But although we have a different culture and language we still like the same kind of humour, irony and so on (black humour included and if you\u2019ve laughed now, well done, you know what a corny joke is.)<a href=\"https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/files\/2010\/07\/DSC04708.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-480 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/files\/2010\/07\/DSC04708.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"336\" height=\"448\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/files\/2010\/07\/DSC04708.jpg 336w, https:\/\/kulturweit.blog\/papillon\/files\/2010\/07\/DSC04708-224x300.jpg 224w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 336px) 100vw, 336px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Today (Sunday) we were even introduced to Bertin\u2019s local church community and I think both of us felt that all the kindness and friendly words were just overwhelming and it would be nice to be able to visit them again some other time in the future.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">I\u2019m definitely looking forward to the rest of my stay in Rwanda but I don\u2019t think that the one and a half days in Nyagatare can be topped. At least I can drink as much African tea as possible for the rest of the week to help me over that thought.<strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><strong>Written by MUGABO Mutoya<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I didn\u2019t know when the first time would be that I will write a blog entry and I certainly wouldn\u2019t have guessed that it would be in one of somebody who is volunteering in Rwanda. But there you go. Just shows you how somebody can pressure you with threatening to take away your new addictions. 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